Hey ,
First things first… I want to clear the air about something.
There’s been a significant growth in the size of our readership inside of the Tribe the last few weeks.
Between that, and creating new, awesome, high-quality content for you guys…
I’ve had a bit of a tough time getting back to all the guys writing in.
Please don’t feel neglected… I get dozens and dozens of e-mails and questions every day.
I do read every single one but don’t always have time to reply… so please be patient.
However, I got a great question from Roger S. writing in from Canada.
He says:
Dear Olivier,
Thanks for your work.
Your smoothies have helped me get back my erections and sexual stamina.
I recently broke up with my girlfriend of over 4 years because our relationship had turned very toxic.
She constantly undermined me as a man in public and tried to shame me.
She has issues with her own father who is an alcoholic and was abusive to her and her mother.
It wasn’t until after I got back my sexual performance and reading the daily newsletter you publish that I had the courage to break it off with her.
But my question is, how can I start to meet high quality women are attractive, smart, and no drama?
I don’t really want to date very seriously now, I just want to “play the field” and then eventually find one good woman to be my girlfriend.
I’ll wait for your reply.
Thanks,
Roger
Okay, first things first… you’ve done a very good thing that I think is worth noting right off the bat.
You got rid of a toxic person in your life!
That puts you in about the 99th percentile in terms of balls in the modern world my friend.
And no, that’s not an exaggeration.
Most guys are too chicken sh!t scared to kick a woman out of their life.
And I understand why, we men have been trained to be dependent on women and their approval nowadays.
Now, I would go into a lot more detail about exactly what you should do in this scenario…
However, I know that my friend Shelley already has a great program designed to address your EXACT problem.
>> Check It Out Here (Warning: Adult material)
One thing to address here, and believe me Roger I’ve been guilty of this myself…
Is that you don’t have to feel like female approval is your #1 goal in life.
It isn’t… not even close as a matter of fact…
Before I started the Tribe of Ageless Masculinity I had health problems, happiness problems, women problems, and sexual performance problems…
I did everything I was told and was a good guy, a good boyfriend, had a good job, worked hard… etc.
But I realized that I wasn’t really chasing after excellence in my life.
Instead, I was chasing after female approval… and when I started to have low energy, low sex drive, erection problems and sh!tty health…
I started to feel worthless as a man.
And one thing I’m sensing from what you write… especially given the obviously abusive and toxic relationship you had with your ex…
Is you obviously suffer from this yourself…
Now, when it comes to meeting more beautiful, high quality women…
That’s really more of an external problem… and it’s pretty easy to fix.
But it’s a lot easier to fix when you both:
-
Know what you’re doing
And more importantly…
-
Make your own excellence the center of your life
See, there’s a ton of great teachers out there that can help find, meet, and flirt with sexy women…
But ultimately, if approval seeking, attention, and sexual validation from women is the center of your self-esteem and self-worth…
You’re going to continue having trouble with the highest quality women.
Truth is Roger, you don’t get what you deserve in life… you get what you BELIEVE you deserve in life.
If you really had faith that you deserved better in your life, you would never have gotten involved with a toxic woman.
You would have recognized her characteristics earlier on and made the decision to walk away.
So look, I don’t want to pick on you (or anyone else in our Tribe)…
However, you do need to start to look at what you prioritize in your life and really consider what you place in the center.
Since you’ve already started to bet on yourself with juicing and sexual performance…
Which is a great start because you’ve prioritized excellence…
But you have to continue to build on this momentum if you’re going to continue to suckle the plump fruits of the pursuit of your OWN legend.
Hope that helps buddy…
Good for you for making the first move.
Now, keep the momentum going.
Stay beastly, brawny, and bold…