Hey ,

 

I got a great question the other day from a long-time reader that I thought I’d share…

 

B.J. from Belfast writes:

 

I’m 43 years old and was divorced 2 years ago.

 

I had trouble with my energy levels so I started juicing and have recovered my strength.

 

Now, I work with a woman who I find attractive and would like to ask her on a date.

 

I try talking with her and she is friendly but I don’t know how to ask her out…

 

Any advice?

 

Cheers,

 

BJ

 

Well, BJ… first of all my man…

 

Congrats on taking control of your own life and doing something about your energy levels.

 

You’re already light-years ahead of most of the guys out there nowadays who piss and moan more often than TAKE ACTION!

 

Now… I hope you don’t mind by I have to give you some tough love.

 

First, unless you have A LOT of natural confidence… I don’t suggest asking a woman you work with out.

 

Especially nowadays with the whole #MeToo thing, and how hostile the average work place is for men… it’s not a good idea.

 

If this woman feels uncomfortable, it could be a very bad situation for you my friend.

 

This is very “non-politically correct” but it’s still true…

 

I could suggest ways you can meet sexy women but I think you have a deeper issue if you don’t mind me being blunt…

 

And that issue is you assume that a woman needs to “like you” in order to feel turned on by you.

 

NOTHING could be further from the truth at all…

 

>> Find Out Why HERE

 

Women don’t date men or sleep with men because they like him.

 

In fact, often times… if she DOESN’T like you it might be better for you (more on that another time).

 

The biggest problem I think you have is that internally you don’t believe you’re worth much.

 

And this is apparent in the way that you talk about things…

 

You reef of uncertainty and low confidence… and the fact that you take her friendliness towards you as a signal of attraction…

Well, I’m going to be honest man… that almost certainly means she feels NO sexual chemistry for you whatsoever.

 

Now, please don’t take this as me trying to beat up on you at all…

 

I’m truly here to help you.

 

And the fact is, there’s no reason why sexy, smart, fun women wouldn’t be interested in you (after all… look at the company you keep ;-) )

 

But knowing how to Spark A Woman’s Arousal is a skill and in if you’re going to get that skill working for you…

 

You really have to hone your instincts.

 

You need to believe, feel and KNOW that women are attracted to you and want to be with you.

 

And I can tell you’re not there yet.

But no worries, you’re young, you’re smart, and you’re clearly dedicated…

 

I have a friend named Jessica who is very good at helping men like you get the girls you want.

 

She’s not like most “female advisors” in your life who will give you bad advice like “just be yourself…”
 

She’ll tell it to you straight and give you great insights that will let you naturally start conversations, create powerful sexual vibe, and escalate all the way from “hello” to the bedroom.

 

>> Check Her Out HERE

 

Hope that helps my friend,

 

Stay Beastly, Brawny, and Bold