Hello ,
The number one reason women cheat is lack of receiving good oral sex.
It's true.
Women love oral sex. Women crave oral sex. But only if it's done right.
Here's why...
A woman has over 8,000 nerve endings in her clitoris alone!
In fact, the clitoris is the ONLY sexual organ on the human species whose sole purpose is sexual pleasure.
Breasts are used to feed the young, the vagina is the birth canal for her young and the uterus houses her young for 9 months.
The penis is also used for urination, the testicles produce sperm for procreation, and the anal opening/canal on both men and women is used for elimination.
And so on.
Yet, the only function of her clitoris is to experience sexual pleasure. Imagine!
That makes her clitoris the ultimate *hot spot*, the revered sweet spot, that shortcut to the elixir of gods... SO IGNORE THIS AREA AT YOUR OWN PERIL!
Sexual intercourse alone will not always stimulate the clitoris -- doesn't matter if you're well endowed or not, if your penis and her clitoris don't line up exactly right during thrusting, she won't reach orgasm (few match perfectly - so don't beat yourself up over this fact.)
Period.
But you CAN bring her to orgasm with oral sex...
...and you'll be her hero when you do.
It's really very uncommon that men perform oral sex with any degree of skill or mastery.
We all enjoy oral sex, but we've never understood the desire women have for it. In fact if we've thought of oral sex at all, we usually think about receiving it more than about giving it.
Because men need rhythmic friction on their penis to climax, we've mistakenly believed that a woman only requires friction inside her vagina to climax as well.
Not always true...
Many women need more than routine thrusting. They need to have their clitoris stimulated.
Whether that's with your penis, your finger, or your tongue -- doesn't matter.
A man who is capable of bringing a woman to orgasm with oral sex possesses the #1 coveted skill of a great lover...
...and you'll become an addiction for her.
She won't be able to get enough of you.
Here's what you need to do:
1. Start with kissing and work your way through foreplay.
2. Now, you've got her primed for oral sex.
3. From her breasts and nipples, slowly kiss and lick downward -- heading toward the center of her womanhood
4. Deeply breathe in the rich, wonderful scent of her
5. Let her know you like the scent and sight of her -- say "Mmmm" or tell her how much you love the smell of her
6. Don't dive right for the muff -- go lower, then lick and kiss her thighs -- tease her a little.
7. You still haven't touched her clitoris at this point -- she should be nearly mad with wanting your mouth THERE
8. Continue to tease -- working slowly and increasing her anticipation with every slow kiss or lick
9. Softly brush your lips and nose over her slit -- you can almost feel it getting wetter as you do this
10. Kiss her thighs, massaging her breasts or hips as you do this
11. Pay attention to her non-verbal signals to determine if she's ready to move on...
- Is she moaning?
- Does she nudge her pelvis towards you?
- Is she twisting around?
- Is she sighing?
- Does she grab your head?
12. Get into a comfortable position, then gently spread her legs with your hands
13. Now, gently lick her slit again, this time opening her vaginal lips with your hands
14. Very gently, lick her clitoris -- gentle is the word here
15. Again, kiss her thighs while looking into her eyes
16. Now you're ready to practice the remaining steps and techniques designed to make her addicted to you.
(I recommend getting the in-depth information manual here)
Remember, slow is the word here. Keep your touches light.
Look into her eyes. This lets her know that you're really into her and will do anything to make sure she enjoys herself.
If you can master oral sex, you'll be in the top 90% of all lovers, and she'll think you're the best she's ever had...
...she'll be eating out of your hand in no time.
Get started right away
