Hello ,
When it comes to sex, is it over and done in the blink of an eye, or do you draaaw sex out so she's begging for more?
I'm not talking about thrusting here...
I'm talking about the build-up.
Sure, there's a time and place for quickies, which are rewarding and a great deal of fun.
But if *all* you have to offer are quickies while forgetting the foreplay, she's going to start looking elsewhere for her fun.
Why?
Women are biologically and emotionally different from men, and those physical differences are what keep us up at night (pun intended.) That's a no-brainer.
However, the way women view sex is a biggie.
Get this right and you're fast on your way to being her best lover ever!
Women are all about emotions during sex. They relish the journey (foreplay) as much as they relish the end result (orgasm) itself.
Go S-L-O-W and you'll have her begging for more.
Go just a little bit slower at everything than she'd like and you can practically get her to do anything for you.
See, when a man gets turned on, he wants to rush in for the goal, needs to feel that orgasm a.s.a.p.
If you do this with a woman you're trying to impress, the only thing you'll impress on her is that you're a selfish bastard and not worth the effort.
She needs you to take time with her. Foreplay is a big deal to a woman.
Often, she's just starting to get heated up when you've already crossed the goal-line.
This makes a woman feel you either don't care enough about her or are being disrespectful of her.
Time spent in foreplay with a woman is necessary to get her engines stoked, so to speak.
It takes a woman much, much longer to reach that point of no return than it does for us.
She'll feel more emotionally connected to you with foreplay.
The slower you go, the more she gets turned on...
There's a good reason for that. She has about 35,000 more nerve endings in her genitals than you do.
When you've got every one of her nerve endings firing, you'll have a wild woman on your hands.
Believe me, there's nothing more beautiful, or that'll make you feel more like a man, than having your woman come apart in your hands -- because of YOUR skill at lovemaking!
Here are a few tips to get you moving in the right direction...
1. Relax. Sex shouldn't be viewed as a vigorous workout. It is to relax both of you and make you feel closer to each other. Take your time.
2. Remember that every woman is a unique person. What your ex liked best quite possibly could make your current woman want to kick you in the balls. Never assume that what turned one woman on is universal to them all.
3. Tease her. Don't lunge right for her sweet spots (breasts, ass, or genitals.) Touch her slowly. Touch her softly. Let her anticipation build.
4. Use soft kisses. Nuzzle her neck. Pet her slowly.
5. Breathe in her scent. Let her hear you as you take in a deep breath of her.
6. Give a little groan or two while you're touching her. Let her know you're turned on by her.
Spend about five minutes doing the above, taking the time and effort to get her heated up. This can be incredibly intoxicating for a woman!
Now, you can touch her breasts, but breasts only -- no nipples yet.
What you're trying to accomplish here is to get her begging for your touch. Her desire for you will increase so much that all she can think about is your touch on her nipples.
Becoming her best lover ever and mastering foreplay is easy, if you have the right moves.
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I look forward to hearing from you about your improved relationship and sexual skills!
