That's right, he went for it, and she busted out laughing like he was a piece of shit, and... it happened more than once.
But not any more. Not ever again. Now when he "goes for it" with any woman, something very different happens.
It's one of those "ultimate nightmares" for men…
To not only be sexually rejected by her, but that derisive laugh that tells you that she thinks it's ridiculous that you would even try.
The three big pain points where this could happen to any man are…
When a woman turns you away, it sucks... but... why would a woman laugh in your face in any of these situations?
I have experienced this.
And many of my clients have experienced this.
And I have had many readers write in to tell me that they have experienced this.
And there is a simple practice for men that can turn this around so that they get a VERY DIFFERENT response.
If you start with the question: "How could a woman be that much of a bitch?" you won't find any answers that are helpful.
But if you start with the question: "What could that guy have possibly done that she didn't just decline, but... laughed?" Well, then you get a different set of answers, and it turns out, if you dig deeply enough into the true nature of the human mind, you get POWERFUL answers.
To a huge degree, humans respond to you the way you expect them to respond to you.
It's called "projection," and Sigmund Freud observed it back in the 19th Century, and you've observed it yourself a thousand times…
If someone admires and respects you, it's hard not to like them and enjoy having them around. If someone hates you and thinks you're a piece of shit, it's quite impossible to think, "well, gee, he's a pretty cool guy, though."
If you hate your boss, no matter how nice you may be on the outside, chances are, your job is in jeopardy because your boss does not like you either.
Now I'm not going to dig too deep into specifics, because it's different for different men and in different situations, but the specific guy I'm talking about here had some stuff in his childhood (that's pretty common for nearly all men), that made him think that his sexual desire was "yucky, bad, gross, something to be hidden" from the girls when he was just a little boy.
And even though now as an adult he KNOWS that normal adult women LIKE sex, this seed from his early childhood makes noise in his brain whenever he's trying to get sexual with a woman. There's this small part of him that is certain that she will be "grossed out" when she finds out that he wants to fuck her...
And because of "projection," something deep in her childhood memory wakes up, and she remembers thinking about how "boys are yucky!" and it triggers this crazy, nervous laugh...
And this is complicated for her, because she ALSO feels shame at feeling like a little girl with him, and it may even trigger anger in a flash, right behind the laughter, because she hates being made to feel this way, and she has NO IDEA why…
And the whacked-completely-messed-up thing is that this can play out even between husband and wife!
But there is a learnable way to "flip the switch" inside of a man so that when they have a sexual intention towards a woman, the reaction is the EXACT OPPOSITE.
Even if ultimately the answer is "no," for whatever reason, she still feels that little shiver of possibility that makes her smile and feel feminine. She smiles coyly at a shared understanding of human desire, and returns to her boyfriend at the bar... or she nuzzles into his chest and says it will have to be another night because it's that time of the
month…
Learning how to be the man who consistently gets this reaction, whose sexuality is always welcome and desired by the women of the world, is a complete game changer for your confidence, self esteem, and happiness...
And, of course, as a side effect: you just get laid a lot.
And just as Freud demonstrated more than 100 years ago, women pick up on it instantly, accurately, and eagerly.
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