Most women LOVE quickies.

 

It's true!

 

But if you read anything on the Internet, you'll only see things about how women take so much longer to reach orgasm (the number I see repeated everywhere these days is 20 minutes), and how, as a man, you have to slow down, and how quickies are just selfish!

 

So here's the thing...

 

First of all, if a woman is highly aroused and you've done foreplay right, plenty of women can have an orgasm in a minute or two. Sure, some take much longer, but the articles I’m seeing would have you believe that if you can't last 20 minutes, you're a loser, and that’s not true.

 

Maybe they mean 20 minutes INCLUDING foreplay?

 

Okay, so all of that is to say that if you're feeling insecure because you can't pound her for an hour: Stop that! You don’t need to beat yourself over nonsense.

 

On the other hand... sex CAN (and probably should) sometimes last for hours...

 

It's just not continuous intercourse. It's taking breaks to cuddle and get hydration, it's lots of kissing, it's changing positions, moods, and sometimes rooms.

 

Quickies should be hot, passionate, and on the heels of hours of merciless teasing and verbal arousal.

 

And, of course… if it’s ALWAYS quickies… yeah, she’s going to get frustrated with that.

 

If you’re in a relationship with a woman that’s starting to avoid making love with you because she’s constantly frustrated by your inability to last long enough, you should consider checking out the 5 Day Total Ejaculation Control Challenge.

 

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Because if you can NEVER last long enough... How is a woman likely to feel about that?

 

Well, let's just reverse this situation and I think you can get some clarity.

 

Imagine you are with a woman you are attracted to and she's hot and heavy and down to play, and she's teasing you, rubbing you, and getting you wild with excitement, and just as you push the tip against the entrance to her vagina, she exclaims, "Oh no! Not again! Sorry, I'm so sorry... no, you can't put it in. We have to stop."

 

This, by the way, is something that does happen. Some women have a condition called vaginismus, in which intercourse becomes excruciatingly painful. And just like premature ejaculation, for many women it happens intermittently and unpredictably, and it can completely take over her life for years at a time. Also, while it is sometimes because of physical trauma, it is usually psychological, and VERY hard to treat.

 

So imagine you’re with a woman who is suffering from vaginismus, and every time you go to have sex with this woman that you're crazy about, she just can't, and weakly offers to finish you with a handjob.

 

You're a good guy, and I know, you'd be patient with her. But how frustrated would you get? How often would you wonder if it's YOUR fault, or if she's the one that’s just BROKEN?

 

If she's the mother of your children or the love of your life, you might make the painful decision to stick it out. But it would be painful, and it would be frustrating.

On the other hand, if you were just dating, if you had other options, if there was some other woman who was very attractive to you who had been flirting with you, you might bow to reality and recognize that the woman you can't have sex with is better as a friend than as a lover.

 

That wouldn't make you a bad guy.

 

And I think it ought to be clear that she feels the same way. If you can never last long enough for her to climax, it's painful, it's frustrating... And for women more than for men, intercourse is more meaningful and emotionally satisfying than oral. Giving her an orgasm isn't enough.

 

And so if she chose to keep you as a friend and find another man as a lover, it wouldn’t make her a bad person.

 

For the man in this situation, the blow to his self esteem is just awful.

 

And that, in a nutshell, is why I think this live, 5 Day challenge, is going to be such a life-saver for so many men.

 

If this is an issue for you in your relationships, this is a real opportunity to fix it once and for all.

 

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Talk soon Champ!