The big picture is this:
You build self esteem and a real sense of value in yourself by learning that you can trust yourself.
Men who fail over-and-over again to control their ejaculation get seriously rattled because they have this redundant experience of not being trustable to themselves.
Their body betrays them. Their mind can't control it. They try to beat it, but they fail again and again… and it screws with their sense of being a man.
Meanwhile, out in the real world, they have to just keep acting like a man, and nobody but their lover knows... so they end up feeling disconnected, like a fake.
It’s called “imposter syndrome” and it eats away at a man’s self esteem.
Now at the bottom of this, it's all bullshit. They are not any less of a man because they can't last as long as they want!
In a perfect world, we are INTERNALLY validated, our sense of self esteem is funded by self trust that comes purely from our internal sense of who we are, not from what we can accomplish or what exterior experiences we have.
But realistically, that's pretty hard if you're not the freakin’ Buddha!
The truth is that it's very easy to be confident when you are highly externally validated. When everyone thinks you're great, and you accomplish great things over and over again, it's much easier to hook into that deep sense that you can count on yourself.
And one of the great “side effects” for men that went through the first session of the TEC (Total Ejaculation Control) Challenge is that conquering this recurring problem was incredibly liberating for them as men.
"Self Mastery" unleashed a huge wave of self trust and confidence.
The man who breaks through the other side of PE and gains this control feels suddenly aligned with who he actually is in the world. It all makes more sense and just feels RIGHT.
And the 207 men who went through the first session are proof. The bottom line: It's just a huge relief!
And that brings me to this:
WEDNESDAY NEXT WEEK IS THE LAST DAY TO REGISTER FOR THE TEC 5-DAY CHALLENGE.
If not lasting long enough to satisfy your woman is a recurring problem for you, DO NOT MISS THIS ONE-TIME OPPORTUNITY:
Join the TEC Challenge by clicking here now >>
Talk soon Champ!
